Welcome to my blog. I am assuming that if you have found your way to my page this is either by sheer coincidence! …. if so…. welcome, and HELLO!!
Or, most likely you too have been in a relationship with a sociopath. If so, then HELLO too… you have my empathy.
My story is far too long to tell. But, I have dated not just one, not two, possibly three. Yes, that is right three. Whilst I am no longer with the last one,
he is still around in my life, as a friend…. who constantly amazes me and has been since we split last summer. Its an interesting experience.
My background? Psychology, Sociology and a lifetimes work with homeless people. I also have counselling qualifications.
I write this blog, as either I am inspired from memory – or more likely the socio’s/Psycho’s in my life – will do something which triggers a memory from when he was being full on sociopath and the ultimate predator (I had no clue), today I do. I eventually did get even. (see part of my blog how to get even with a sociopath), and the nightmare stopped. He does still do things like violation of my privacy.
It took me a long time to come out of the fog, and confusion, and the shock of what had happened to me. Now, I watch and I observe the sociopathic behaviour, some of which, now today, does make me laugh. Sociopath’s are not really strong people. They control out of fear. Also because they have poor impulse control over themselves, they never learn from past life lessons, and repeat the same mistakes over and over again. It is so haphazard. Like a walking disaster.
A sociopath can make your life into a train wreck, almost lost my home, got thousands into debt, had my privacy violated, was stalked, I had to do SOMETHING….
What I write here, is, I hope a true account of dating a sociopath. I have the last year read works by Robert Hare, and Hervey Cleckley, and yes this is my sociopath, and also the psycho before him. Fortunately this one is charismatic and funny, not distempered. But…. I wasn’t laughing so hard, when he wiped my bank accounts and got me into thousands of pounds of debt.
I hope that what I write, helps you to make sense, of the nonsensical :)
Thank you, and please comment, or if you feel you need help. Mail me…. if you are stuck. My contact details are in the contacts section. I love reading comments, good or bad, and will always reply.
Thank you for visiting the very crazy world of dating a sociopath!!!
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