Inside the mind of a male Sociopath


I was looking at Twitter followers earlier today. I came across this follower. This was written solely on November 9th 2013.

I don’t know if it was my ex, or someone else. If this was someone you, and you read this, then please let me know, so that can credit you. The following, is separate tweets, all written, on one day. There are no other posts, other than this flurry of tweets on this day.

Inside the mind of a male sociopath November 9th 2013 – tweets from twitter.

He’s charming, demure and will say all the right things like he’s known you forever. But his actions never match his words.

His eyes will entice you like you’re the only woman who has ever existed….until the next woman standing next to you, catches his eye.

He will promise you the world but never make good on any one of his promises. His ego is larger than life and he seeks the attention of all.

When you approach him on even the smallest lie, he goes into a rage of how good he is to you and all he has done for you, which is another lie.

He never does wrong. It is always the world against him and his goodness.

He says that you are the love of his life but always puts you second. Second choice, second in line, second best.

He will abuse you and then explain how it’s your fault because you didn’t behave or act appropriately.

He removes every person from your life as a way to control you, as he is the only one who is truly your soul mate – according to him.

He is the life of the party, the centre of attention. Always looking to see who is looking at him, to give him the attention he so desires.

He cries his woes to make you feel sorry for him, as a way to control your need to help him with his self created problems.

He creates unnecessary drama just to make people feed into his need for attention.

Everyday with a sociopath is like groundhog day. His woes are always the same and he does nothing to change the drama he seeks.

He is loved everywhere he goes because the game of loving him is made easy by the fake he presents to all that surround him.

He treats the people close to him like garbage, because there is no show left for him to seek their attention out of boredom.

The sociopath can never be alone and when shunned by the ones who love him, he will find any reason or move on to the next showpiece.

The sociopath is a sex addict and even in love will lust everywoman while he is away from home, or even within the presence of his love.

The sociopath will make sickening eye contact with every woman just to verify his power over her and he usually wins at his game.

Try leaving a sociopath and he will make your life a living hell, destroying every ounce  of your life, friendships, finances, self respect and family.

He is a chronic pathological liar and will make up lies that any sane person knows makes absolutely no sense whatsoever.

These posts were written on 9th November 2013. The name of that page, is almost identical to my own, with the addage ‘No Escape’. I recall what was happening in my life, at that time. We weren’t together, and he was full on gaming. 

Whoever wrote this, it either was him, or it is someone who had read my site.  

Anyway – I hope that this helps. This is somewhat what it is like to be involved with a Sociopath. Although reality, over time, is far worse than this.  .


20 thoughts on “Inside the mind of a male Sociopath”

  1. The funny and sad thing about that writing is that it’s very truthful. It also could be talking about women. A sociopath is a sociopath, a narcissist is a narcissist, a pathological liar is a pathological liar, either one, man or woman, are the exact same in how they treat people.

    1. Yes. I wanted to write it as it was word for word. So it was written by a man and makes comment about his perception of women. Why the title is as it is Ken.

      1. The only error in this is using the word “love”. There is no “love” to a sociopath…totally incapable.

  2. 3 years later & he’s finally just a bad memory but periodically he will still send a text here & there professing his undying love for me which he pretends to still feel, blah blah blah. I never respond back EVER! It was the worst roller coaster ride of toxicity I’ve ever experienced & will never look back. The straw that broke the camels back was him date raping me while I was inebriated, which he did our entire relationship, I’ve looked it up & it’s called somnophia. The difference with this time is that we weren’t together & immediately after that, goes to the police & files a bogus report saying I assaulted him, I guess so that if by chance I wanted to report the rape, which I did, it would look like I was lying bcuz I assaulted him, which I didn’t but there’s always an ulterior motive with psycho’s like this & they’re always 10 steps ahead of a normal human being. In court he was telling the judge that I knocked his tooth out & he “wanted me prosecuted”. I hired a lawyer & faught for my true innocence. Thank God I saved old text messages bcuz 2 days prior to him filing his bogus charge against me, he texted me asking if I “had any more of that tooth stuff”. I relied yes why? He said my tooth FELL OUT AGAIN & actually sent a picture holding his tooth in his hand. I had forgot about these texts until I started going back through our old texts but it saved me. I printed it all out & have it to the prosecutor. He dropped all the charges & the psycho & him actually got into an argument IN court. He looked like such a fool but some how wasn’t charged for falsifying charges bcuz they always seem to skate right under the law! This wasn’t the only time he tried framing me with the law & there’s a ton of other abuse I endured from him, honestly I could write s book! It was terrible!!

  3. My ex and I broke up (again) nearly a year ago. I was never in a relationship where you would break up, get back together, etc. That’s not who I am. Once I’ve made a decision that something didn’t work for one reason or another, it was always a permanent decision. But, welcome to the world of narcissism and sociopaths. Since the break up last year, she reaches out every two to seven weeks depending on my reaction the last time she contacted me. I sent her number directly to voicemail as any conversation quickly becomes her yelling at me if I bring up anything she did in the past. Now, it’s become email only and she doesn’t like that. Not just for the obvious reasons, but because she can’t re-write history as I have everything she says in writing. This makes her very cautious about her answers. The thing is, I managed to track down other guys she’d been doing this to and we’ve compared notes. I know of things she’s deliberately lying to me about and she refuses to come clean. It’s like you always read… they’ve got an answer for everything. She wants to be in touch and she’s even said she still cares about me, but the second I question her on anything she becomes vicious and lashes out. She wants me to ignore what I know and be with her until the next time she’s ready to crush me again. So she’s getting impatient because I won’t see her and she can only reach me via email and we don’t live local so it’s he only option. A few months ago when I told her a few things I knew she lied about, she responded by calling the cops and saying I’m harassing and stalking her. It’s sad, but you really must save everything once these people latch onto you. My phone records clearly tell a very different story as I’ve only placed one single phone call to her in 10 months and that was after she called the cops and left a message demanding that I call her — I know even that one call was stupid but it is the reality of the situation. Everything they do is manipulation. If they can’t get over on you, then they will just as soon crush you for their enjoyment. I wished for a long time that I could figure out a way to deal with her condition and make it better, but all I’ve found is that they’re evil, petty people who will never know true happiness in the sense that two people who really love each other do. They take pleasure in controlling you. They need to dump all their issues onto you and make you into the problem so they can feel better about themselves. No person is worth this. It’s not our place to save these people no matter how much we care about them. The thing I keep telling myself is that it wasn’t real. Certainly, her feelings for me weren’t real. And even though my feelings for her were real, the person I was in love with wasn’t real. Nothing with a sociopath is what it seems.

    1. Do you think that she could potentially be Borderline Personality Disorder? You haven’t given enough information. Difference between Borderlines and Sociopaths, is that BPD people can do the on/off of relationship. Whereas a Sociopath is likely to stay as long as they are able to manipulate you, play with you, get what they want from you. They move on, when you fail to give this, and they need another target to feed off. Sociopaths don’t really have emotions, they fake them to manipulate you (for their own benefit) BPD people do have emotions, in fact, they can be excessively emotional, they can also be manipulative, but this is to avoid real or perceived abandonment. They push you away, because they are really feeling it inside. Sociopaths tend to keep you around, and keep you on side, until the very end when they destroy you completely. Only ever returning if they want something further from you.

      1. Well it’s definitely confusing for me and I understand that it’s difficult to classify someone even after extensive therapy. I’ve been trying to determine if she does in fact have emotions. I’ve see her overact to mild violence in a tv show which I was wondering if it was faked as the level of her reaction was way out of line with what she was seeing. She also supposedly cried at the end of a movie, but this was after she saw I was crying. When I asked her why, she gave a vague answer. Finally, she cried several times when we were making love. This was really suspect because it caught me off guard. Again, when I asked her what was going on in her head she couldn’t really explain it. It’s a lack of being able to elaborate on certain things that involve emotions that concerns me. She’s usually pretty verbal and vocal so I would expect her to be able to explain. On the flipside she’s crazy emotional when she feels slighted or gets upset (usually over the craziest stuff). So is she BPD and these are normal reactions for her? i don’t know. While sociopaths don’t have emotions, I believe that they can become outraged and mad, so I wonder if those are the emotions I’m seeing and the tears are all fake. It’s very confusing. For a while, I believed that the tears in the bedroom were because she was honestly torn about staying with me. There’s an intense attraction and a lot of passion, but she has some concerns that come across as legitimate (my kids being young, our different lifestyles and being able to be free, etc). But at the same time, she never really leaves for these reasons. She seems to fabricate arguments. She always leaves and ends up on dates with other guys. Then she comes back to me. I know for a fact she’s lied to me about things like when she slept with this one guy, and she swears up and down that she is THE “most honest person” I’ll ever meet. I understand that people aren’t perfect and we take the good with the bad, but this situation is unmanageable.

      2. Ha yes they love to tell you the very opposite of what they are John. Then they get more delight from you believing in them, then conning you some more.

  4. Every word resonance sith me ut in the long run the abuse to me and oyr child was nust pure hell.
    I could have written that as i we t throhgh every word pf it.
    Five years on , i have no contact although he still tries to contact me.
    I will never ever respond.
    But five years on still effecti g me and my daughter .
    She is left with anxisty isdues and abanfonment from her farther. He walked away without a goodbye just dissappeared info tnin air vanished .like he ne er existed
    But he treats his current partner badlt they have co tacted me but i will not respond too. He even bri gs different women go slerp in her home. His fb and instagram full of picgures of other women and him. He chats up every eoman he meets then beds them.
    I never trust another human being again in my life. This man was a conman and stole my home and left us in financial ruins . With no home in tbe sinter gime with a you g kid.
    He borrowed on li e against my hone forged the signature and never repaid not one pahment to them.
    I never knew anything my bank acvounts were cleared , i only found out shen they came to change tbe locks in my home.
    I had to leave with few clothes left my home a d belongings. He even sold my car. Left us on the streets with thousands on the overdraft .
    I have come out of it now but life sill never be the same

    1. I am not sure that I understand the question. But I will try to answer.

      When you talk about ‘feelings’ they don’t feel the same way as other people. They function and operate more using their ‘mind’ than their feelings. However, they can fake feelings, to manipulate and control others, for their own benefit.

      I wouldn’t imagine that they would ever feel that they lost power over others, as if that were to happen, they would set out to ruin and destroy that individual. Make them an empty, ruined, shell. Destroy their life. This to them, would be control. When they cannot control you, they would control how others see you. I hope this makes sense, and answers the question?

    2. Well, for starters, I’m a sociopath myself, and I’ll add to this.

      My personal reaction depends on the person and on their previous worth. If they’ve expended their use for me and finally saw me as an asshole, I suppose I’d think, ‘It’s about time,’ with a hint of amusement in my mental tone, and move on to someone else, mainly because that’s exactly what I would have done anyways.

      However, if they were very useful to me or just in general fun to mess around with, I’d be agitated to say the least that they’d even consider leaving my life, what with me going to the end of my rope to absolutely annihilate them.

      TLDR: If they hold any shred of use or amusement to me, I’ll be pissed. If not, I could care less.

      1. However you must realize that they will eventually discover that you are damaged goods and need to be let go of.

    3. When one of those damaged individuals no longer has control and you choose to walk away, you will see them go nuts if they still need you. They will do everything they can to convince you to keep them, want them, nicely at first then slowly change tactic and play the silly games all the while you know they aren’t being sincere at all. It took me 8 years to get my ex-sociopath to stop contacting me after I had gone no contact the first year. There is no nice way to break up with them, no being polite or respectful, you just have discard them and not look back and no contact or they will continue to pester you like gnats.

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