The sociopath is ghost on a hamster wheel of life. They feign that they are not ghosts, and that they are real solid people. You won’t realise that their physical manifestation of love, everything that they are, is made up of the essence of you.
They are ghosts. Empty vessels. While their mind and brain power is sharp, the rest of them, is empty. Like a ghost. They need to find a target who is
a) Willing to become a victim
b) Is offering what they need and want
We all do trade offs in relationships. The problem is, that the trade off that the sociopath offers, exists only in their mind, it is a product that is as real as the emperors clothes, a figment of their imagination. If you dare to object that the clothes are not real, and therefore this is an unfair deal, you will be met with anger, deflection, false accusation, which will confuse you even further. The sociopath will stand by the lie, as it is always more important than your feelings. The lie is their protection, it is their friend, and sadly, the lie is less transparent than the invisible clothes worn by the emperor.
The sociopath will become angry with you, when you decide that you no longer want to be
a) A victim
b) Used for whatever it is that you are being used for
This leaves you with little to no rights. You are forced, by way of obligation, usually because you have been forced to invest, but only your investment will be real. The sociopaths investment, is merely words, and an illusion.
The sociopath will maintain that they will stick to their part of the deal, but realistically, they can’t as they do not possess the product to keep to their end of the bargain. All that that they can do, is confuse you further, feed you more lies, illusion and confusion, and stall for time.
You could be waiting for a long time for the sociopath to be everything that they promised they would be. You would be waiting for the rest of your life. Waiting, merely means playing the game.
Yes, it hurts, it hurts that someone lied to you. Yes it hurts that someone manipulated and deceived you. Yes it hurts that someone played a game with you and your life, it didn’t allow you to make decisions for yourself. This is why the sociopath will always have the upper hand. For they are the only ones playing a game. How can you play a game fairly, when only one party is playing and only one knows the rules (that they make up and change as they go along?)
If they say that they will be everything that you want from them and that they will change, they will tell you this, it is like everything else, a lie. As the sociopath will never possess the products that you so desperately want, they can only sell a product that is made up. That doesn’t exist, that isn’t real.
The children laughed, when they watched the emperor walk past naked, they knew that he was wearing no clothes. Children are smart, and see the truth….. the emperor had pride, didn’t want to admit that he had been duped and conned….. the sociopath manipulates, controls, and keeps their partner, exactly the same way.
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